You’re both right! …you heard me… you are BOTH right! Once you can validate your partner’s point of view, even though you may not agree with it, you have taken an important step in reconnecting with your partner.
When each of you decides that it is more important to be loving than it is to win, you move from conflict to connection. It’s time to stop keeping score and start playing on the same team. By using various techniques such as Inner Bonding© and Imago Relationship Therapy, I can help you learn how to manage your feelings rather than allowing your feelings to control you. I can teach you how to not take your partner’s behavior personally.
Whether you come in alone or with your partner I can help you learn how to change your relationship dynamic. When you change, your relationship changes.