It Doesn’t Take Any Energy to Hold Hands

Have you ever wondered if there was something simple you could do to strengthen your connection with your partner? The simple answer is yes!  It doesn’t take any energy to hold hands! It doesn’t get any easier than this!

For those of you who are still non-believers, let’s look at the advantages of holding hands:

  1. It doesn’t cost anything
  2. It is extremely energy efficient. You get great MPG(minutes per grasp): limitless.
  3. Maybe your partner will surprise you later by sliding his/her hand around your arm
  4. You can progress to different moves including arm swinging, bicep curls and triceps extensions.
  5. Synchronized walking is easier.
  6. It doesn’t take any planning. You can hold hands anywhere and anytime.
  7. It doesn’t mean you agree or disagree or that you’ve given in or given up. It just means you're giving.
  8. You can thumb wrestle at the same time
  9.  You can do this with either hand!
  10.  You don’t have to look at your partner at the same time, so you can continue watching television, talking on the phone, etc.
  11. You can text with your other hand at the same time.
  12. There’s nothing you have to say. Holding hands communicates everything.

It doesn't take any energy to hold hands. What is required is a desire to share love with your partner. To connect with your partner.  To be on the same team. 

If you’re frustrated with your relationship, wondering how to deepen your bond with your partner or just looking for a new adventure, consider making the first move. Reach over and make contact with your partner. You might be surprised what happens next.

Now that’s loving.

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